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Destiny is Variable
  Topic
Subject Destiny is Variable
Author P. VIJAYA RAGHAVA REDDY
Email pvijayareddy@indianoil.co.in
Posted On March 08, 2010
Message

Destiny is Variable

In the Old Reality, things were seen as opposites - black or white, hot or cold, good or bad, this way or that way. In the expanded view of New Reality consciousness, life is seen in a unified way. Opposite sides of the coin are viewed, not as polar opposites, but rather as just being different aspects of the one coin.

In the New Reality view of the world, the opposite extremes of black and white become, instead, endless shades of gray. Hot and cold become variable degrees of warmth. Good and bad become different shades of human nature; free of the judgment, hate and fear that comes with Old Reality, polarized thinking.

In the Old Reality, destiny and free will were seen as mutually exclusive. The reasoning was that, if destiny exists, then it controls everything and, therefore, free will does not exist. On the other hand, you can prove that free will does exist by making a choice. So, as the thinking goes, if free will does exist, then there can be no destiny.

But, wait. Perhaps that choice of "free will" was really a pre-destined one. Perhaps the person was destined to make that choice all long, so the experience of choice was just an illusion. At this point, people usually give up on the whole question because it has turned into one of those brain teasers, like asking which came first - the chicken or the egg.

Brain teasers keep your mind in an endless loop until you try stepping back from the situation and seeing it in a wider perspective. The new, wider perspective allows for the inclusion of non-materialistic factors. In deciding whether the chicken or the egg came first, for example, you just have to step back and see that the Creator designed the chicken to be self-perpetuating.

When you step back and see destiny and free will from a wider perspective, you realize that nothing has to be absolute. If every event in your life were pre-ordained, there would be no such thing as free will or self-determination. As we do have free will, destiny cannot be fixed.

Destiny is therefore variable, not fixed. Destiny and free will both exist as interwoven facets of your life. Like threads in a tapestry, they interact with each other and blend to form the outcomes that are the events in your life.

Your destiny is created by plans that you made at a soul level of consciousness. Before you were born, you made your main plan for this life. Then, the minute you were born, the rules of the game demanded that you also get a case of amnesia about the whole arrangement. Such is the game of life in the physical realm.

However, at night when you go to sleep, you have the chance to visit the deepest levels of human consciousness and review how the original plan is unfolding and make changes to your plan if desired. When you return to your physical body and awake in the morning, amnesia strikes again. Within seconds of your conscious mind returning into your physical brain, you forget both the surface dreams and the deep experiences of the night.

Amnesia may be a part of the game we are playing in this life, but inner guidance is always available to anyone who pays attention to it. Your intuition is your link to your soul, or inner being, which is also linked to the rest of the universe and all levels of Creation.

You are never left alone to fumble in the darkness of a purely physical life. Your inner being is always there with you, expressing itself through the quiet whisperings of intuitive information. Thanks to this inner compass of knowing, you can always sense which choice feels right. You can always tell when your life is running on plan, and you can tell equally well if you''ve become temporarily distracted from your plan. You always have the means to be right on course, or get back on course, and explore the fascinating themes that make up your life plan.

The most productive use of free will is to explore your true potential within the themes of your life, thus gaining the greatest possible experience from your life plan.

Destiny is an influence that comes from your inner plan. There is nothing absolute about your destiny. It''s a pressure which constantly seeks the best route to unfold into manifestation.

Free will provides the means to manifest that destiny in a way that provides the learning that you came here to acquire in this life.

Destiny is variable. It adapts to the circumstances of your life every second of the day. As destiny unfolds, you feel it within as a sense of being a part of the flow of life, of manifesting your potential in the way that you planned for this day and that you planned for this life.

Destiny is the plan. Free will is the action. Experience is the result.

That''s what being human is all about.

By Owen Waters
Excerpted from his book,
Love, Light, Laughter: The New Spirituality

 
  Reply - 1
Subject Re: Positive & Practical Philosophy
Author A Sajid Husain
Email ALIHUSAIN@indianoil.co.in
Posted On March 08, 2010
Message

That''s  a very thought provoking article on positive and practical philosophy of Life. Thank you Mr. Reddy for posting it.

Indeed Destiny is the template and action of choice is what manifests it. The better the choice the better would be the destiny. This is also in complete consonance with taking ownership of one''s life.

I think we can use the discussion forum to post such lovely articles that can be life changing .

Unconditional acceptance and Love leads us to the Light of enLightenment which in turn leads to a Happy, Kind and Heart full of Joy.

  

 
  Reply - 2
Subject Re: here''s a story from Panchatantra - Destiny
Author Chandrakant Ghatol
Email cghatol@indianoil.co.in
Posted On March 08, 2010
Message

agargupta was a merchant living in one of the country’s big cities. He had a son, who, one day purchased a book whose only content was a single verse. The verse read:

“What is the price of this book,” the father asked.

“Hundred rupees,” said the son.

The father flew into a rage and said, “You are a fool. You have paid hundred rupees for a book that has only one verse. You can never come up in life. Leave my house at once. It has no place for you.”

“Thrown out of the house, the boy went to another city and began fresh life there. One day, a neighbour asked him, “What is your native place and what is your name?”

The boy replied, “Man gets what he is destined to.” He gave the same answer to whoever asked for his name. From that day onwards, people began calling him Praptavya, meaning the same line he was reciting to indicate his name.

“The summer came and the city was celebrating it with a big fair. One of the visitors to the fair was the city’s princess Chandravati and her maids. Chandravati was young and beautiful. As she was making the rounds of the fair, she saw an extremely handsome warrior and immediately fell in love with him. She told one of her maids, “It is your job to see that both of us meet.”

The maid ran to the warrior and told him, “I have a message for you from our princess. She says she will die if you do not meet her today.”

“But tell me where and how I can see her. How can I enter the harem?” asked the warrior.

The maid told him, “Come to the palace and you will see a rope hanging from the high wall. Climb and jump over the wall with the help of the rope.”

“All right, I will try to do it tonight,” said the warrior.

When the night came, the warrior lost his nerve and thought, “O this is an improper thing to do. The elders have said, “He who has liaison with the daughter of a teacher, wife of a friend or of a master or of a servant commits the sin of killing a Brahmin. Also, don’t do what brings you a bad name or what denies you a place in heaven.” In the end, the warrior decided not to meet the princess and stayed back at home.

“Coming out for a walk in the night, Prapta noticed the rope outside the royal palaceand curious to know what it is, went up the rope that took him inside the princess” bedroom. The princess mistook him for the warrior and served him dinner and with great ecstasy told Prapta, “I have fallen in love with you at the very first sight. I am yours. You are in my heart and nobody except you can be my husband. Why don’t you say something.”

“He replied, “Man gets what he is destined to.” The princess immediately realised that this man was not the warrior she saw in the day and asked him to leave the palace at once. She made sure that he climbed back the way he came. Prapta left the place and slept that night in a rundown temple.

“The sheriff of the city came to the same temple where he had arranged to meet a woman of vice. He saw Prapta sleeping there and to keep his meeting a secret, he asked Prapta who he was. Prapta recited the verse about destiny. The sheriff then said, “Sir, this is a bad place to sleep. You can go to my house and sleep there tonight in my place.” The merchant’s son agreed to the proposal.

“At the sheriff’s house, his young and beautiful daughter Vinayawati had asked her lover to come and meet her secretly there in the night. When Prapta came there following the sheriff’s advice, Vinayawati mistook him in the darkness for her secret lover. She arranged a feast for him and married him according to Gandharva tradition. Noticing that Prapta did not utter a word, the sheriff’s daughter asked him to say something. Prapta recited his usual verse. Vinayawati realised her mistake and asked him to leave at once.

“As Prapta once again took to the street, he saw a marriage procession entering the city led by the bridegroom named Varakirti. He joined the procession. The bride was the daughter of a very wealthy merchant of the city. This procession reached the wedding hall sometime before the scheduled time for the wedding.

“The bride’s father set up a costly and gaily decorated dais for the wedding. The bridal party came to the scene of wedding a bit in advance. In the meantime, an elephant went berserk and killing the mahout headed for the marriage venue. The bridegroom and his party joined the frightened people who were fleeing the scene of marriage.

“Prapta happened to see the frightened bride alone and abandoned on the dais shivering in fear. He jumped on to the dais and told the merchant’s daughter that she need not fear for her life and that he would save her at any cost. With great courage and presence of mind he approached the elephant with a stick and began to threaten him. The elephant luckily left the scene. Prapta took the bride’s hand into his as a token of assurance.

“When peace returned, Varakirti and his friends and relatives also returned to the dais and seeing the bride’s hand in the hand of a stranger, addressed the merchant, “Sir, you have pledged the hand of your daughter to me. But I see that you have given her away to someone else. This is improper.” The merchant replied, “My son, I don’t know anything. I also ran away from the dais. Let me ask my daughter.”

The daughter told her father, “This brave man saved me from the mad elephant. He is my saviour. I won’t marry anyone but him.” It was now dawn and hearing the commotion the royal princess also came to the wedding venue to see what happened. The sheriff’s daughter also came there learning what had happened. The king also came there and asked Prapta to tell him everything without fear. Prapta as usual recited the verse.

This verse rang a bell in the princess head. She remembered what happened in the night and thought “Even God cannot undo what is destined.” The sheriff’s daughter also recalled the events of the night and thought “There is nothing to regret nor cause for surprise.” Listening to what Prapta said, the merchant’s daughter also thought “nobody can take away what destiny gives me.”

“The king now knew everything and the mystery of the verse. He then gave away his daughter in marriage to Prapta and also a thousand villages as gift. He also crowned Prapta as the prince. The sheriff also married his daughter to Prapta. The merchant’s son lived happily ever after with his wives and parents.

 
  Reply - 3
Subject Re: Good One!
Author Shantanu Das
Email shantanudas@indianoil.co.in
Posted On March 08, 2010
Message

The first article is good. Does not need my saying that. The last one is good too. Never heard this story though I have been a voracious reader in childhood. Maybe it was an adult story for my age then!! haha!

But my dear Ali... while I agree to your basic concept of posting such articles is okay "...I think we can use the discussion forum to post such lovely articles that can be life changing" 

I ask you whose lives do you want to change? And why?

 
  Reply - 4
Subject Re: Change
Author A Sajid Husain
Email ALIHUSAIN@indianoil.co.in
Posted On March 09, 2010
Message

One can continue to change one''s own life by making the right choices and thereby give shape to one'' destiny.

One must try keep changing oneself to continue being relevant.If we stop growing we are as good as dead. Inspiring stories, articles, films, books etc help us to review and renew our thoughts and behaviour.

A great piece of advice I received from a faculty during a training session was : You must hold the belief , the Belief should not hold you.

 
  Reply - 5
Subject Re: well
Author karthick
Email gokulblair@gmail.com
Posted On March 09, 2010
Message

Mr Chandrakant Ghatol

I agree with you because

when duryodan try to strip draupati , Bhagwan krishna saved her by tricks. We all knew, Bahgwan krishna is the most powerfull, he could have amputate duryodan or he could have made her invisible to duryodan or he could have lifted her out of the floor, but he iddnt? because destiny played the role.   

 
  Reply - 6
Subject Re: Ali Bhai!
Author Shantanu Das
Email shantanudas@indianoil.co.in
Posted On March 09, 2010
Message

Q. "I ask you whose lives do you want to change? And why?"

A. "One can continue to change one''''s own life by making the right choices and thereby give shape to one'''' destiny.

One must try keep changing oneself to continue being relevant.If we stop growing we are as good as dead. Inspiring stories, articles, films, books etc help us to review and renew our thoughts and behaviour.

A great piece of advice I received from a faculty during a training session was : You must hold the belief , the Belief should not hold you.

So I take from your answer that you want to change your own life! And that you want others to post such articles for you to read here. Okayy. Now it is clear.

;-)

 
  Reply - 7
Subject Re: Greatest Wisdom
Author A Sajid Husain
Email ALIHUSAIN@indianoil.co.in
Posted On March 09, 2010
Message

:-)

All change begins with the self. And truly everyone is interested in change. Growth is the most natural and desirable change.

Growing to be kind and understanding to people is the greatest wisdom. 

Wisdom also says "Don''t force change on others let it happen when they want to . Just "Be the change you want to see in others. "

Self Realization is destined for every human being. Your choice of freewill can take you there better and faster. Anubhava and its application in day to day management of life is the key. All modern management literature is also converging on the POWER OF NOW and conscious decision making which is a brillliant combo of freewilled manifestation of destiny.

 
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